While browsing Newsweek one morning I came
across the article about Brokeback Mountain. Within the week I read the
article numerous times. I finally found the book at a local bookstore
and since have read it several times. I haven't seen the movie yet
because so far no local theater is advertising it. I do plan to see it
as soon as it's available even if it means travelling. And I do plan to
purchase the movie as soon as it's for sale.
Many of the people I talk to about this book and
movie oppose it. They don't understand it's a movie about falling in
love and how that affected two innocent people. They don't understand
that those two characters in Brokeback Mountain could very well be them
or someone close to them. Love doesn't ask to happen. Love doesn't
choose color, gender, appearances, etc. Love just happens.
I think this book is amazing. It made me cry and
every time I watch the trailer, I cry. It's unbelievable and remarkable.
I want to watch the movie over and over and over. My heart aches for
this type of love, the love that overcomes everything you know and all
you are, the type of love that is true.
Thank you for making this into a movie and for
sharing it with the world. Congratulations on a job well done!!!
-- Mother of four, Tennessee, USA
First off, I am writing this story from a
heterosexual point of view. I attended the screening in Los Angeles with
my girlfriend. As the story unfolded, I found myself more and more
intrigued with the story, especially Heath's character. In addition,
every scene looks like a postcard, speaking straight to you with so much
emotion and heart. When the movie concluded, I must admit that I did
feel a lot of pain for Ennis Del Mar. You can only wonder what could
have happened? How will he live out the rest of his life? My girlfriend
could not control her emotions, and could not stop crying long after the
film was over. She claims this as "the greatest love story and
poignant love story ever told, with so much honesty and truth being
portrayed among the characters". This is why I decided to share my
story, because it has such a profound effect in everyone, including
straight male audiences. It's not to be missed.
-- Roger, Culver City, California,
USA
I have seen this trailer 22 times so far. I
unfortunately am located in a city that is not on the December 9
released date calendar. I have not looked forward to a movie release so
much in my life. Nor has a movie trailer touched me so much as this one.
I read the book (or as my 13 year old daughter calls it), a pamplet on
steriods. I have cried every time I watch the trailer and cried like a
baby reading the book. I have NO idea how I am going to make it thru
this movie, but I can't wait to find out. The love story here is so
universal and real. As a gay man, I can tell you I will be blessed to
have this kind of real, true love someday.
-- Sam, Cincinnati, Ohio, USA
I plan on seeing this movie. I know it will
remind me of my husband and his best friend of many years. If you think
it is tough on one of the men involved in this kind of romance, I can
tell you it is hell on earth for one of their wives. I don't know if
they have expressed their love physically and will probably never find
out, but it has been obvious to me for many years that they are in love
with each other. For any of you men out there who are in this situation,
I urge you to leave your wives for the other man. It is actually the
kinder thing to do, as those of us who are the wives, are suffering
also. It is better not to live your life with a lie.
-- Anonymous, USA
I don't happen to be gay (nor am I in the
closet), but there's something about this story that tugs at me. I
haven't even seen the movie yet. Is it the fact that someone has finally
been courageous enough to portray love (and pain) beyond the boundaries
of heterosexual romance? Is it the offer of a bridge over the gorge of
hate, fear, and ignorance that separates one huddled mass of humanity
from another? Or is it that being male in America carries a punishing
burden of emotional alienation and this story offers a bittersweet
release?
-- Miguel, Maine, USA
I got a free pass to see this movie at a
prescreening. I am a straight married female. I was a little worried
about how graphic the sex scenes were going to be, but consider myself
to be open minded. My nephew went with me. After the show, we talked it
over and we both liked it. What I was not anticipating was the way this
movie "seeps" into you. The whole next day - I thought of this
movie several times. As I said, it seeps into you and upon relaying the
story to my husband the next day - I was really in tears. He must have
thought I was a bit crazy because the night before - I casually told him
I had enjoyed the movie and thought it was good. This movie has a impact
that may not be noticed right after viewing. The story of the deep love
is amazing and it matters not that it involves a gay couple. Both Heath
and Jake do an excellent job of acting. I was glad to see that THAT
stereotype was not shown at all.
Go see it - and be prepared for it to creep up
on you
-- Barb, Phoenix, Arizona, USA
I wanted to see this movie for several reasons.
Obviously I was curious about the tension involved in a love seen
between two heterosexual actors, one of whom has a real life girlfriend
sharing many scenes with him. But also I just wanted to see a different
kind of love story. But the thing is, after watching the film, I
realized that there is no "different" kind of love story. Love
is love. The only thing that differs is people and circumstances. As a
heterosexual female I have certainly experienced the feeling of being in
a relationship that was doomed never to evolve or last for whatever
reasons, but which I could not give up immediately solely because of
those reasons although perhaps I should have. That feeling was captured
perfectly in this movie. There is always one person who feels they
cannot live without the other. The other is always resigned to try the
more mainstream path to avoid shame and inner turmoil. It always ends in
tears.
-- Zenzile, Bronx, New York, USA
I was known as the most promising Hockey player
to come from our area since most could remember and as a Junior starting
varsity quarterback, I was compared to all the greats. Like most young
men my age, I was gonna go and live the dream, play college ball, go
pro. I had offers to Duke, Princeton, UCLA, Texas and Oklahoma State
just to name a few. I play the most physically demanding sports around
and excelled at everything but my connections to my feelings.
I don't want to drag this out so I will be
brief.
Most athletes will tell that there is all types
of practical joking and hazing in the locker room, most will deny that
it is even the least bit homosexual. 250 linemen dry humping the
sophomore place kicker is not gay it's just fooling around. But when the
star quarterback, is caught shirtless, passed out with another guy of
considerable popularity, it is cause for a total breakdown in the good
ol' boy system. I was drunk he was drunk we both live openly gay lives
now (separately) but what transpired that night no one witnessed.
The mere thought of me being gay was too much. I
went to college a year and half later on an academic scholarship, my
coach made sure I would not play ball anywhere on his recommendation. It
didn't stop him from using me to win his 11th state title my junior year
and his 12th my senior year. Needless to say my college career was
uneventful, I was an emotional wreck and though I managed to graduate
with a degree in Human Sexuality and Family development, my life was a
bit of a let down during that period.
I saw the preview for "Brokeback
Mountain" when going to see "Walk the Line", I hadn't
heard of it and it was a total shock to my system. It brought back such
vivid and gut wrenchingly painful memories I was forced to let go of the
silence that had been killing me. Not of my current life but of the life
I relived in my dreams and memories, always trying to correct and modify
as if it would alter my present existence. I only hope this movie will
accurately depict the pain men go through when they realize they are
gay, love football and a good hip check. but at the end of the day it is
another man that makes them whole.
-- Kevin , New York City, USA
I was 19. I was in the Army. I had a fiance'
stateside.
I met him while in the Army in Germany. It was a
friendship at first then on my 20th Birthday we drank a wee bit too
much. We shared many thoughts and talked all night and started to get
physical but stopped.
I was afraid for a week after that, that he'd
turn me in, that I wouldn't have him for a friend, that'd he'd reveal my
secret and shame me.
He finally got me alone and confronted me about
what had happened. I asked if he remembered the night of my birthday, he
said yes. I was waiting for him to tell me that I had taken advantage, I
was in trouble. Instead, he looked into my eyes and kissed me.
I loved him more than anything in the world.
I've never felt such emotion, joy, happiness. I was overcome with love
that I'd never felt before.
For a year we stole time to be together. Here.
There. On the train with 1000 other soldiers on maneuver, secretly,
quietly, gently, we loved each other. We had to keep our secret. We kept
it from our friends and our families. We decided that we wanted to stay
together. That was twenty years ago. I love him more now than ever
before. My love, my life, the one who loves me. Vince, I still love you.
-- Ed, Gloucester, Maryland, USA
I read Brokeback Mountain few months ago and I
was weeping and depressed for couple of days. Why? I seriously could not
understand...... Until I saw the visuals of the strong 'hug' between
Ennis and Jack......
I read the novel again and realised that I am
missing a part of my life......
-- Kasun Sameera, Sri Lanka
My dear brother just told me a few days ago that
he was gay, and I'm Brazilian, I'm here in NY for vacation, and watching
that movie made me realize that he's more man than many men I know,
'cause he really is proud of being himself and while I was watching
Ennis react to his love I just kept thinking "you got to face
yourself, if you don't, there's no use to come out of closet" and I
realize I never thought about my brother in that way, and that I needed
to say that to him, and I did.
So this movie showed me more than gay people are
masculine or not, love or not, but showed me that find the love of our
live is not a big deal, the deal is to love it the way that we need to
love, that love without the freedom to love is the worst prison to
someone.
Brokeback Mountain is a memory of themselves
that they left behind, and that feeling is the key factor that director
Ang Lee and his extraordinary cast captured so well, hope to get news
from the ACADEMY!!!
-- Antonio Fernando, New York
(Brazil, actually)
Well, I saw the trailer to Brokeback Mountain
just a few days back and read some news about it on the local papers. It
said that it had won an award. Seriously, I want to catch this show so
badly. However, I think they will not be showing in Singapore!!! *sad
sad*...When I saw the trailer, it hit me so powerfully. It just reminded
me of my ex of 3 years. Both of us moved on in our own lives, but a part
of me still lingers with her. I guess i felt exactly how Jack Twist
felt, that he just wanted to know "how to quit you." The movie
trailer itself already captured my attention. Seriously, I can't wait
for the film to be release!!
-- Estrella, Singapore
I'm a 17 years old student, I love a man named
David, he is 28 years old, I can't face this, I'm afraid my parents, the
society and everybody I know not admit me and this love. The truth is, I
know he like me but I can't close with this love, and now, he came back
to his homeland: France, where he live. I know how much I love him, I
miss him so much, but it's too late, everything is over.
So if you love someone, you must tell that man
you love him, don't be irresolute until it's too late! This is my own
Brokeback Mountain, thanks for making this movie!
-- epanda, Dazhou, Sichuan, China
Love is a force of nature that we cannot resist.
It's not long before I became to realize this. Fortunately I was able to
think it over and over again with Brokeback Mountain. Even the trailer
itself is enjoyable. It tells my story at the very beginning, and I just
follows Ennis' pattern. Struggle seemed useless everytime I challenge
the majority. I need the freedom to live my own life, and there it is in
Brokeback Mountain. It brings me much confidence. I'd like to thank all
the people who had helped to put this story on screen.
-- Anonymous, China