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Suggest you first read Life
in 1964, part 1 before coming here
The second part of LIFE magazine's
1964 feature on homosexuality was entitled "Why?". Reporter Ernest
Havemann interviewed a number of psychologists and scientists.
Read today, the report sounds very dated.
Clearly, in the 36 intervening years, much has changed in our understanding of
sexual orientation. In fact, much has changed in our understanding of human
nature in general. In 1964, the behavioural school that came out of B F
Skinner's theories still reigned supreme. Put crudely, people thought that
humans were like blank pages, and it was through experiences, good and bad, that
they became the kinds of persons they were.
This was reinforced by the fact that at that
time, the only people interested in the question of homosexuality were
psychologists and psychiatrists, so naturally, they sought answers to their
questions in the realm of psychology. The LIFE article saw them talking about
adolescent experiences, suffocating mothers and distant fathers.
It was only decades later that the possibility of
genetic or organic causes were explored seriously by scientists, and their
findings have changed our understanding of homosexuality greatly since the LIFE
magazine story was published. Yet, in this magazine, there were already hints
that the "why" lay beyond psychological experiences, in the realm of
biology. But it was only suspicion. At the time, no one had any good evidence.
The sad thing of course, is that much of the
hogwash we read below, current knowledge for 1964, is still accepted by broad
swathes of society in Singapore today. These psychological explanations -- that
homosexuality is the outcome of bad upbringing or bad influences, or some kind
of arrested development -- are also convenient, in that they don't threaten the
presumption that homosexuality is moral deviance and repugnant, antisocial
behaviour. Any other explanation for homosexuality that does not hinge on
bad life experiences cannot support a view that homosexuality is bad or ill. A
purely biological explanation cannot support a moral judgment. But some people
want to make a moral judgment (the joy of indulging in prejudice,
remember?); they will find it hard to accept biological
explanations.
Anyway, let's see what the article had to say.
The lot of the homosexual …
is often furtive, hazardous and lonely. Many homosexuals have gone to
psychiatrists begging desperately for help in escaping from a life that they
had decided was utterly intolerable.
A little further on,
Says Dr. Paul Gebhard, successor to the late
Dr Alfred Kinsey as director of the Institute for Sex Research: "Almost
nobody chooses to become a homosexual. More than nine times out of ten, a
man becomes a homosexual for the sole and simple reason that he cannot help
it."
You see how even a relatively enlightened
sentence such as this one sounds today? Terrible. I would never say "a man
becomes a homosexual". People don't. Some people just simply are
homosexual. There is no threshold, beyond which a "normal" person
turns into ("becomes") a homosexual person.
Paedophilia rears its ugly head early on in the
article, reflecting, I guess, the way people make top-of-mind associations
between homosexuality and paedophilia.
There are, of course, some homosexuals who
specialize in seducing young boys. But they are decidedly a minority group:
they are the least homosexual of all homosexuals, less active than the
others and far more likely to be married… [They] tend to be lone wolves
who stay away from the gay society and indeed would be shunned by it. The
boys they seduce are seldom lured into the homosexual life, at least not for
long.
I am sure many people still do not know this,
today. Worse yet, they still won't accept this observation even if they were
told so.
Did you find the construction "they are the
least homosexual of all homosexuals" strange? I did, and didn't immediately
understand what it was saying. Then I realised that the writer saw homosexuality
as sexual acts, not as orientation. He was saying that boy-paedophiles rarely
engaged in adult homosex. It's such an outmoded idea to see homosexuality as
merely sexual activity!
What did they think the causes of homosexuality
were, way back then?
If almost nobody becomes a homosexual by
choice, what then accounts for homosexuality?
Part of the answer seems to lie in the fact
that all mammals, human beings included, are born with an innate capacity to
respond to almost any kind of sexual stimulus. Zoologists observe homosexual
behaviour in nearly every species of animal; anthropologists find it in
human societies in New York City to the South Seas, and historians find
records of it in the civilizations of the past. (Among the noted confirmed
homosexuals of history have been Plato, Michaelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci and
probably Alexander the Great.)
The 1948 Kinsey report was mentioned. According
to it,
… nearly half of all boys engage in some
kind of homosexual play before they reach adolescence; even after
adolescence slightly more than a third of them have at least one homosexual
experience at some time in their lives.
Then the scientists step in with their
explanations that presume homosexuality as some kind of consolation prize, if a
guy can't get a girl.
Dr. Gebhard and his present associates at the
Institute for Sex Research believe that, given mankind's innate nature and
our present social customs and moral codes, this is only to be expected.
Boys become sexually mature -- and indeed reach the very height of their
sexual capacity and interest -- in their adolescent years. They are
discouraged from making any outright sexual overtures to girls, and as a
matter of fact few girls that age are interested in sex anyway. On the other
hand, boys are thrown together intimately on athletic teams, in boarding
schools and in summer camps.
Few girls that age are interested in sex? That
statement alone tells you how far off the mark the whole theory is. You'd notice
however that this theory is still extant. People still blame single-sex schools
as breeding grounds for homosexuality!
More vacuity:
The adolescent has to repress his burning sex
drive toward girls, but has considerable opportunity and temptation to turn
it into homosexual channels… Numerous studies have shown that boys who
mature earliest and have the strongest sexual drives and capacities are the
likeliest to experiment with homosexuality and to adopt it as a way of life.
We know today that most gay men knew they were
gay even when they were teens. They didn't have to repress their interest in
girls and turn their attention to other boys; they never had any interest in
girls to repress.
And the article keeps on talking about
homosexuality as a behaviour change:
Yet homosexual experience, like a
vaccination, may take or may not. Some boys seem to be so susceptible that a
single experience sets them in a life time pattern. Others engage in
considerable experimentation yet never really take up the homosexual way of
life.
One could say the same of men who try to go
straight, get married, have kids and so on. For years. Then one day, they still
decide, enough is enough, and they throw all pretense away and "go
gay". What does that tell you about sexual orientation? It has nothing to
do with experience or "experimentation"! Once or however many times!
But over and beyond the influences of
happenstance and society, says Dr. Gebhard, there seems to be little
question that some boys are predisposed to homosexuality. All medical and
psychiatric authorities agree.
Our great-grandfathers, when they dared think
about the problem at all, believed that homosexuality was inherited: some
men were just born "queer," with a woman's disposition in a man's
body; they constituted a "third sex" which was an aberration of
nature. This view was based largely on the mistaken notion, still held by
many people, that all homosexuals have effeminate, "swishy"
manners and would like nothing better, if only they could get away with it,
than to dress like women, pluck their eyebrows and use lipstick. In actual
fact, there are many effeminate men who are not homosexual at all -- and
indeed the Institute for Sex Research has even found that some
transvestites, men who like to dress in women's clothes, are happily married
and lead perfectly normal sex lives. On the other hand, says the Institute,
fully 85% or more of homosexuals, look and act very much like other men and
cannot be spotted for certain even by the experts. Often the only signs are
a very subtle tendency to over-meticulous grooming, plus the failure to cast
the ordinary man's customary admiring glance at every pretty girl who walks
by.
Modern tests of physical characteristics and
glandular secretions have shown no recognizable differences between
homosexuals and other men, yet our great-grandfathers may have been partly
right at that. Franz Kallman, a German analyst, once managed to find 40 men,
all homosexuals, who had identical twin brothers. In every case, the twin
also turned out to be a homosexual, even though the brothers had never
confided to each other and had sometimes grown up apart from each other …
Then a sudden turn in the weather:
The psychoanalysts, who have observed and
treated many homosexual patients over the years, believe that homosexuality
represents a form of arrested development.
After some discussion about Freud's theories,
about how a child may want to grow up exactly like his mother, or, in case that
idea won't sell, there is a diagonally opposite idea: how he is so frightened of
his feelings for his mother, he remains afraid of women all his life …
Freud thought that the tendencies toward
arrested development were inborn: some boys simply had less psychological
drive than others, or were by nature "passive" and inclined to
identify with the feminine -- rather than "active" and inclined to
identify with the masculine. But ever since the 1962 publication of a famous
study headed by Dr. Irving Bieber, modern analysts have put the blame less
on heredity than on childhood experiences.
Dr. Bieber and his research committee,
studying the case histories of 106 homosexuals who had been treated by
members of the Society of Medical Psychoanalysts, found that a remarkable
proportion of them had been reared by mothers who babied them all through
their childhoods. Typically, the homosexual's mother regarded him as her
favorite, her pride and joy, who must be protected at all costs from the
hazards of growing up. She discouraged him from forming friendships with
other boys… and jealously protected him from any girls who might show an
interest….
… Even with such a mother, Dr Bieber says,
a boy can grow up to normal adulthood if he has a warm affectionate father
to set an example of masculinity and counteract the mother's influence. But
the typical father of the homosexual, far from liking and supporting his
son, turned out to be totally uninterested in the boy or actively hostile.
Often the father was jealous and given to disparagement and ridicule. They
boy feared his father and often intensely hated him. Babied and
demasculinized by his mother, despised by his father, he arrived at
adolescence "beset by feelings of inadequacy, impotence and
self-contempt" -- and was an eager recruit to the "less
threatening atmosphere" of the homosexual world.
Just in case any reader is taken in by the above
explanations, let me point out a more likely explanation for the reactions of
the parents in such situations. The arrow of causation is more likely to be the
other way around. The parents' behaviour don't make the child homosexual. The
homosexual child induces this kind of response by his parents. The child does
not have to be out and proud. No one may even suspect (yet) that the boy is
homosexual, but there is mounting evidence that latently-homosexual boys behave
differently, have different interests in their childhood compared to
heterosexual boys. A mother may sense this subliminally and may find her
latently-homosexual son more accessible emotionally, or just simply cleaner,
compared to other boys. It will hardly be a surprise if she treats him as her
favorite. A heterosexual father on the other hand, may have a hard time
adjusting to the disappointment that his son does not share his interests, e.g.
football, and he may react by becoming distant from the boy.
In 1964, when people framed homosexuality as
something that one "became", it was impossible for people to conceive
of this explanation. How could children be homosexual? If people were said to
become homosexual only after puberty (and through bad experience or seduction), the arrow of causation had to be adults to
children, not children to adults. Unfortunately, the old theory still sticks
around and causes many parents to blame themselves.
In Dr. Bieber's view, of course, homosexuals
are psychologically sick: the emotionally disturbed offspring of emotionally
disturbed parents….
Most of the speculation about the mental
state of homosexuals, however, comes from therapists who have treated
homosexual patients -- and thus involves the possibility of a built-in bias
which worries some of the experts. One skeptic, Analyst Ernest van den Haag,
was once told by a colleague, "All my homosexual patients, you know,
are quite sick." "Ah, yes," said Dr. van den Haag, "but
so are all my heterosexual patients."
Seeking information about the great majority
of homosexuals who have never visited a therapist, a Los Angeles
psychologist named Dr. Evelyn Hooker once managed to find 30 such men, then
matched them as nearly as she could, by age, intelligence and education,
with 30 other men. She gave both groups a series of personality tests and
submitted the results to a panel of trained scorers -- who could find no
significant differences between the two groups. This may only prove that
personality tests are unreliable, as many scientists suspect, or it may
indicate that homosexuals can be just as healthy as anybody else.
I wonder if the above is news to anybody today.
Are there people who still think homosexuality is a personality disorder?
Freud did not believe that homosexuals were
necessarily sick; in a famous letter to a mother of a homosexual who had
asked him for help, he wrote, "Homosexuality is assuredly no advantage,
but it is nothing to be ashamed of, no vice, no degradation, it cannot be
classified as an illness."
The LIFE report then speculates about the
prevalence of homosexuality in the population.
How many homosexuals are there in America?
Nobody can say for sure. The closest thing to a census was the 1948 Kinsey
report, which was based on interviews with 5,000 men. Kinsey estimated that
four men in 100 are exclusively homosexual all their adult lives.…
Dr. Bieber believes that the number of
confirmed homosexuals is closer to 2% ….
There are also women homosexuals, of course,
but the number is much smaller -- by the estimate of the Institute of Sex
Research, perhaps only a third or a quarter as high as the figure for men.
One reason, some analysts have suggested, is that it is far easier for a
woman who is afraid of men to perform adequately in marriage than it is for
a man who is afraid of women.
Lesbianism, like male homosexuality, is seen as a
sexual act. If you don't do it, you're not one. Notice also how homosexuality,
whether the male or female kind, is phrased as being "afraid" of the
opposite sex!
Can society do anything about homosexuality?
Not a great deal. Freud felt that most homosexuals could not be changed even
through prolonged psychoanalysis. Dr. Bieber's attitude is considerably more
optimistic; he found that 27% of the homosexuals in his study led normal sex
lives after analysis. But even 27% is a low figure, and it would be
impossible for provide analysis for all the homosexuals in the U.S. anyway.
This is all history now. Psychology professionals
in the U.S. and other western countries today do not consider homosexuality to
be a condition that requires therapy. "Conversion therapy" , which
some fringe religious groups still promote, has been found to be akin to
stalinist brain-washing.
The laws against homosexual acts have
certainly not stopped the confirmed practitioners. As Dr. Gebhard and many
others have pointed out, sexual behaviour is one of the most compulsive of
all human traits, and the man who is in the grip of homosexuality is likely
to practise it regardless of the risks or penalties.
"In the grip of homosexuality"? Ah, the
language of the times!
Law officials and psychiatrists who have
tried to make international comparisons do not believe that homosexuality is
any more widespread in places like France, the Netherlands and Sweden, where
it is not punishable under the law, than in other nations like ours where it
is considered a crime.
Most people who have studied homosexuality
believe that the laws against it are what Freud once called them, "a
great injustice" and "cruelty" -- unjustly penalizing the few
who are unlucky enough to be caught. Indeed some observers think that the
legal penalties and social stigma which threaten the homosexual's life may
cause him more emotional disturbance than homosexuality itself….
What a refreshing, modern statement from 1964!
But it was too good to last, for immediately afterwards, the report backpaddled:
But certainly society's powerful disapproval,
if not necessarily the law's, serves to deter at least some young men who
are wavering between the two worlds.
There we go, back to seeing homosexuality as
choice!
Or you can see it another way: the writer and
editor had to cover their arses. They had to say something moderately
conservative, lest they be accused of "promoting homosexuality." It's
a syndrome we see all too often in Singapore's media. The hypocrisy of the
society and the state requires hypocrisy of the media. 
© Yawning Bread
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The caption to the photo says:
On Main St. in Los Angeles, the "frantic
hour" comes when homosexuals face their last chance for a pick-up
that night. |